How wonderful it is to give a compliments!

"People will forget what you said,
People will forget what you did,
But people will never forget how you made them feel " Maya Angelou

This is very true at a certain time a person tends to forget or ommit  every single details of what happens in the past but here is what remain
they will never forget how they felt...

It feels good actually to receive a compliment. Compliments induce or bring positive feelings that come because someone has noticed something about you which is worthy of praise. Compliments are so important parts of sociability and are also useful for beginning conversations.

In the world today people are busy and they tend to treat each other badly with some excuse,but let me remind us that "they will be always an excuse if you are looking for one"
So let us stop to make people feel worse or insecure with our words or our silence let us compliment each other!

Sincerely speaking in  our African society people rarely  compliment each other!
Not because they don't want to but because they are not  used to it!
And When I said they are not used to it, it means probably from their childhood they didn't receive compliments from parents or teachers, relatives and family on  how they are beautiful/handsome  or How they are proud of them  or being appreciated on incredible work they have done  even if it was their duty, or their new shoes... where as  some  received an impure compliments which makes them feel worse than  ever...

To neglect this issue had an impact on our children,friends,beloved ones even on ourself.
Here is the positive effect of compliments:

1.it makes ones happy
2.it builds self esteem
3.it makes someone'day

However  some people they tend to feel uncomfortable with compliments: psychologist says people who feel uncomfotable with the compliments  mostly struggle with low self-esteem  because they contradict their own self-views. People actively seek to verify their own perceptions of themselves, whether those are positive or negative.
So if you have this issue start now to value yourself  by changing your perception about you.
You are worth,
you are capable
You are beautiful/handsome
And You are loved. I can go on and on but you need to say this to yourself as well!
  there is a say that " “A man cannot be comfortable without his own approval.”

 so start now value yourself and others.
And again “If only you could sense how important you are to the lives of those you meet; how important you can be to people you may never even dream of. There is something of yourself that you leave at every meeting with another person.”
So start compliments people and start it on yourself!

Hey! Did  you know ,You can make someone feel heaven today! Start now!

Mamilla Pauline

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