Start now: compliment or appreciate others!
In the last articles we have seen how complimenting people can affect them positively.
However,For some people giving compliments is an uncomfortable venture,
Here is some tips on how to give compliments properly:
When you say compliments that you don't mean, people can almost always tell or find it out. If you really mean the thing you say, they'll be much more likely to believe you and feel good about what you say.
Here is how you can do it try to look in the eyes of that person and tell them what you have in your heart sincerely and don't forget to be specific for example if its about the suite,dresses or about new hairstyle.
Make sure what you're saying to someone isn't offensive, even if you "mean it to be a compliment".
If you are about to say something that make someone feel disrespected in form of compliments please keep it to yourself!
Always look for a perfect time to give a compliments there are some circumstances in which a compliments won't be given.
for example to complement Someone on look while he finish to give a speech it's not a good time,.he might feel bad because his focus was on the task at a time And he may feel his work is ignored!
Don't give compliments that will turn back to you it will look as if you are self-centered
For example "you did well i can't be able to do it in the same way!"
This is wrong you are turning topic on yourself!
It is good to focus compliments on a person not in the things for example instead of saying "I like how that dress looks on you " you can say "you look great in that dress" here the compliment focus on person not on things.(dress)
Find out what another person struggling with, what he want to change in his/her life and appreciate them on the effort that they are taking to accomplish it.
For example one might want to learn new language or how to sing or improve their look appreciate their effort towards the same! It will encourage them.
Mamilla Pauline
Have a wonderful day!
However,For some people giving compliments is an uncomfortable venture,
Here is some tips on how to give compliments properly:
1.Be sincere
Here is how you can do it try to look in the eyes of that person and tell them what you have in your heart sincerely and don't forget to be specific for example if its about the suite,dresses or about new hairstyle.
2.Be respectful
If you are about to say something that make someone feel disrespected in form of compliments please keep it to yourself!
3. Look for a perfect time
for example to complement Someone on look while he finish to give a speech it's not a good time,.he might feel bad because his focus was on the task at a time And he may feel his work is ignored!
4.don't let the praise comeback to you
Don't give compliments that will turn back to you it will look as if you are self-centered
For example "you did well i can't be able to do it in the same way!"
This is wrong you are turning topic on yourself!
5.focus the compliments on them
It is good to focus compliments on a person not in the things for example instead of saying "I like how that dress looks on you " you can say "you look great in that dress" here the compliment focus on person not on things.(dress)
5. Give a hand!
Find out what another person struggling with, what he want to change in his/her life and appreciate them on the effort that they are taking to accomplish it.
For example one might want to learn new language or how to sing or improve their look appreciate their effort towards the same! It will encourage them.
Mamilla Pauline
Have a wonderful day!
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